Attraction is generally felt amongst Teens when they are 10–17 years old. If you have a strong romantic feeling towards someone, you could say that they’re you’re Crush.
You can actually have a crush on anyone you know or like. Generally, when you like someone or start liking them for the first time its’ a feeling like no other , or you can say you’re enlightened. But in teenage , we tend to lose these crushes and they change , gradually. Its’ nothing quite serious. But, who do you tell these things to ? The problem is that you cannot discuss these things with your family, they will just scold you and say that these things are distractions , But they are not , its’ pretty natural. You can say that friends are their for you but, mostly they think of you and your feelings as a joke.
So, the only option left here is , actually there are none. Most of the teenage romantic relationships are just timepass stuff. Even if you confess to your crush and start a new relationship , after sometime you will feel that it is nothing special. Yeah , that is because it is nothing special really . Things like love , attraction , romance aren’t meant for teens our age . Until , of course you get above 18 or 18. I may sound like an old parent but actually this is true , this age is for studies and general fun . The next problem comes is , you’re not able to forget your crush , they’re the new owners of your fantasies or something . I’ll tell you a way around that too.
Easy , make new friends and stop stalking them or in simple words , Get Over It Already!
Now , here’s where you’re friends could really help you out , you can study with them , play with them or just keep talking to them .
“Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep-burning, unquenchable”. Henry Ward Beecher
Read this and you will get what I’m trying to say. You still may pursue your crush and say this , “This is TRUE LOVE” , Well then I’m sorry cause its’ not. And the movie fantasies you are in , let’s just say are not quite True . It will hurt and it does . But yeah, by definition a crush must hurt!
